Pregnancy update

If you didn't already know, I am pregnant with my first child :-)
The first few months were awful and I spent the entire days throwing up, I couldn't hold anything down not even water and I felt so ill!
But now I am 20 weeks and I'm only being sick once a day so I'm happy :-)

I have a bump now, my colleagues think I expanded over the weekend!and now people know I'm pregnant rather than just assuming I'm getting a bit fat which is always good!
I have started reading to my baby as it is what my mam did when pregnant with me and my sister,  and we turned out really well! I only read children's stories though,I know the baby can't understand what I'm reading yet but it would just feel wrong to read books like fifty Shades of grey to a baby! Hubby  has also started talking to the baby so when she is born she will recognise her dad's voice, it's actually really cute except when all he does is sing Liverpool football songs!

Baby has been kicking for 4 weeks now, sometimes it feels a little uncomfortable  because of where she is lying but mostly I love to feel her move as then I know she is still happy and healthy in there ☺

We are thinking about having a 4d  scan when I'm 27 weeks pregnant to find out the gender as she wouldn't open her legs during the 20 week scan so the scanner could only guess!

I think that is everything sofar ☺
Xxx

If you don't want people gossiping...don't do anything worth gossiping about!

There's a married woman at work who has been sleeping with a man at work since before she got married. Everyone knows about it, her husband knows about it, and the man at work got drunk and told everyone about it on a night out.
At my work people like to gossip, people have gossiped about me and not even got their facts right but I take it in my stride because it's part of life really, everyone- whether they admit it or not- loves to talk about other people's lives. I don't mean in a nasty way,just general talk to pass the boredom of the day
This married woman apparently doesn't like to be talked about, and has in the past even gone as far as to report anyone who mentions her and this man  to management so they get a disciplinary.
What I want to know is how can someone get a disciplinary for merely mentioning that she is seeing this man, who admitted it? It's not slander as it's true, it wasn't said maliciously and no harm came to anyone and everyone knows about the situation anyway.
This married woman talks about other people, and even spreads rumours sometimes so how can she get mad when people talk about her?

My point is of you don't want to be gossiped about don't have an affair with someone at work, especially one who will tell everyone about it.

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